Texas on my mind

I’ve been thinking a lot about when we lived in Texas the first time, this last week. Don’t know why. I actually think pretty often about Charlie Perkins Barbecue in Cleburne, Texas. Oh, how I miss it.

It was 1980 when we moved to Granbury, Texas, famous (?) for being close to Glen Rose of fossil fame. My husband is an engineer and he job-shopped for awhile. It was great money, we got to see a lot of the country that we probably would not have otherwise, but we moved about every 6 months or sooner .

Matt, our first little one, had been born in January that year and my brother-in-law got married on August 10. We attended the wedding and moved from Tennessee to Texas August 11. We were more durable back then.

We lived with some friends for a little while, until the duplex we rented was ready. It was brand new! Nice. I made curtains for Matt’s room from jungle-themed sheets and checked the back yard every few hours every day. The building site had been a huge field before the duplexes were built, had a great view of Comanche Peak, and snakes, scorpions and tarantulas were everywhere. Fortunately I only found one mouse in the house, no snakes or other creepies. There were also oodles of toads that came out at night. It was a bad year for heat stroke and rattlesnake bites, too. The weather was extra hot, well over 100°F every day, usually over 110°F, and dry. Snakes would shelter in the shade of cars. When people tried to enter the vehicle the snakes would strike. You learned to check under the car every time you got approached one.

Now, I’m a country girl. I grew up on farms and knew all about animals, but these were unfamiliar ones. Spiders that you could see crossing the road at night, large scorpions in the light fixtures, and snakes under cars. I always checked everything before I let Matt on the the floor. I checked his bedding. I checked our bedding. Everything. Especially after I saw a huge hawk swoop down behind the duplex and carry off a snake bigger than itself.

It wasn’t ALL scary, though. Huge dragonflies came flew all around. I’ve always loved them. I guess the nearby river kept them happy. The scissor-tailed flycatchers were gorgeous. I could watch them for hours. We saw cattle egrets everywhere. They are native to Africa, but a flock was blown across the Atlantic at some time by a storm. They made it to Tennessee a few years back, but they have been in Texas a long time. In south Texas they call them rice birds because they follow the harvesting machinery and eat the insects they stir up.

Our friends made the move much easier by finding us the duplex before we got there and introducing us to the best restaurants in the area. The first was Charlie Perkins Barbecue in Cleburne. It was about 28 miles from Granbury, which is practically next door in Texas.

I wish I had taken pictures of this place. Charlie Perkins must have been interesting. I never got to meet him. His restaurant was huge–warehouse-size. He probably employed 30 people. You could find any kind of barbecue you could imagine there. One catch, though–you had to check the Texas A & M football schedule before you went. His son played and he attended every game that he could. And he would close the restaurant. You should be watching the game, not eating barbecue. Oh, my gosh, that food! They really needed the sawdust floor. You couldn’t keep from dropping or slopping a bit while you gobbled it up. I have never had any to match it.

One thing I found fascinating were the huge longhorns in the adjacent field. Their shoulders came to the top of my 6′ husband’s head. I swear, their horns were wider than our car was long. I had been around cattle all my life, but I have never seen any before or since that were this large. I can’t remember if they were steers or not. Probably. They tend to get bigger.

The next restaurant was Japanese. My first. Yumm! But the local ones are just as good. Then, there was The Cattlemen’s Steakhouse. (Insert Homer Simpson sounds here when he dreams of donuts.) Oh, boy! This was not the fancy Cattlemen’s Club in Dallas. This was the original one in Fort Worth. It’s a little more down-to-earth, older and man, what steak! I swear, it melted in my mouth. I have never had better. Not even in Houston or Beaumont.

We moved away from Granbury in October that year, but that area made a big impression on me.

Like I said earlier, I’ve been wondering what happened to Charlie Perkins Barbecue. I found a young cousin while doing genealogy who lives in Cleburne. He’s never heard of it. Of course, this was 40 years ago. But I searched for the restaurant and finally found out what happened.

This is a Bum Steer Award from the January 1983 Texas Monthly:

BUT THANKS TO THE AUTHENTIC SMOKE FLAVOR, THEY BOUGHT FIVE ORDERS TO GO
Citing a city ordinance that prohibits firemen from answering calls outside the city, a truckload of Cleburne fire fighters sat and watched Charlie Perkins’ barbecue restaurant —bordering the city limits three blocks from downtown — burn to the ground while Perkins fought the blaze with a garden hose.”

Sweet Hat Talk

One of my favorite groups of people is four-to-five-year-olds. My youngest grandson is four. I love how he pronounces things. The subject of skunks came up the other day. He went on and on with his knowledge of what “stunks” are and how they act. He was very accurate. I like his version of the name.

Youngest Grandson also loves Thor: Nagornack. You know, the one with *sigh* Chris Hemsworth.

Husband and I took him and his older brother to the Smoky Mountains a few weeks ago. We spent some time exploring the river bank and watching for wildlife, but the highlight was the visitor’s center with all the stuffed real animals of the park. They were so excited seeing creatures they had heard about but never seen. And Older Brother kept saying, “Nana, did you see the owl?!?!”


His new favorite animal is a wolf. This is a big shift from tigers, which hold the record of being favorite for 3+ years. Cheetahs held the title for about a year. We bought him a toy wolf at another visitor center in Townsend and youngest got a bag full of plastic animals. His choice. I tried to buy him a stuffed toy but he loves making landscapes full of small animals, so the plastic toys were very well suited to his personality.

The funniest thing Youngest Grandson said that day, though, was, “Nana, somebody threwed trash in your hat.” This statement came from the backseat while we were driving home.

I thought hard for a minute and asked, “What hat?”
“This one back here.” Well, I should have known that.
“What does it look like?”
“Ummm, it’s big.” I do have a large head, but I still don’t remember having a hat in the car.
“What color is it and where do you see it?”
“It’s black and it’s right here by my feet.”
“In the floor? That’s a trash can, honey. It does kinda look like a hat, though.” A stovepipe hat without a brim. Hahahahahaha. I explained how it was a collapsible trashcan for the car while my mind played with visions of me wearing the “stovepipe hat” and making speeches from a caboose. Carrying an axe. In a suit coat with tails over a long skirt.

On another note, I’ve been busy, but not necessarily with creative pursuits. My health seems to be improving a little. I actually had a polyp removed from my vocal cords today. It doesn’t hurt as much as I thought it would, although I had to be knocked out for it. I hope that it will take care of the periodic loss of my voice and constant hoarseness. Now I’m on total voice rest for at least 5 days. That means that I can’t speak. I’ve done it before when I’ve had laryngitis, but then it hurt to talk. Now it doesn’t hurt much and occasionally I forget. And Husband forgets and asks questions. We really are getting old.

I did have a commission for a denim newsboy-style hat for a lady who had one when she was a teen or twenty-something. It had a zipper in one crown piece. I think I got pretty close. I added zippers and pockets. She was a very happy customer.

Denim hat lady loves hats as much as I do. She even knows the series Miss Fisher’s Murder Mysteries. The costumes on it are phenomenal. We are kindred spirits. She bought the darker hat. The lighter one is at Locally Grown Gallery in Oak Ridge. I have got to make one to fit me. And not allow anyone to put trash in it! I’ll let Youngest Grandson guard it!

Leave them wanting more

Yesterday, I went in for bloodwork and a followup appointment at my doctor. I turned off my phone as is appropriate at the doctor’s office. The nurse called me back, made me weigh and took all my vital signs and drew blood. A lot of blood. That’s my excuse–well, part of my excuse.

She then said, “Okay, I’ll see you next time,” and walked out the door, closing it behind her. I was a little confused. I had thought that I would talk to the doctor that day, but I’m used to just doing tests and leaving too., so I walked out and drove to my friend’s shop to visit with her for awhile. Of course, I forgot to turn my phone back on.

After several minutes I took my phone out to show her a picture and saw that the doc’s office had called 4 times. Before I could call them back my son called and said, “Your doctor called me and asked me why you would leave their office. They said you checked in and then left without seeing the doctor.” I told him what had happened and wondered why they were forgetting all those samples I left them.

How I felt while in the exam room alone and after they called my son.

I called them back. They said, “No, you were supposed to see the doctor today, but you left before she could get there. Did you have an emergency or something?” I explained.

So I drove back to their office and talked with the nurse practitioner who just went over my meds and sodium levels, etc. Everything was normal. Why all the fuss? After the nice man at the checkout desk gave me an appointment for mid-May, he said, “I saw you leave and thought you must be a family member of a patient.” Then, quieter, he said, “I tell her all the time that if she doesn’t start saying something other than ‘I’ll see you next time’ we’re going to have patients walking out.”

I told him, “Yes. I swear I thought I was done. I’ll try to remember next time that she does that.” And I didn’t say it, but I’ll probably leave my phone on.

When I went back to visit my friend, I showed her the photo of the dress I made for an Indian wedding. She referred the lady to me whose child is getting married.

It looks much better on its owner than hanging on my sewing room door.

This project was an adventure. That’s all I’m saying about that, but it turned out just fine.